Ready to mingle?


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In India if a woman is single, happy and has male friends then she is taken to be ready to mingle freely. The urban, independent woman is a great friend with no excess baggage. They are great buddies and fun to hang around with. But its really difficult to have a social life for a single mature woman. It starts as a friendship but men come with their own set of expectations. 

There are men who ask  you out for coffee or movie and you readily agree. But majority of times you come across as an Easy lay. The Indian men want liberated women friends for creating a variety to  spice up their lives.For the free spirited Indian women, its so hard to find a man who is just not thinking about jumping to the bed…..I don’t want to imply that all Indian men are the same but its the truth that men do not really bother about the thin line between friendship and attraction


Being single….and not willing to get married


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imagesCAYG3NRQI am single and way past marriageable age. OMG….still I have to answer all the questions about why I am not married…..I think everyone thinks me to be in a pitiable condition and the advises are umpteen. In India it is a norm ” to settle down”. So till this time of my life I should have found a male with a fat bank balance and at least two kids…..Its so difficult to make anyone understand that not all women see a Man as an ATM machine; the woman psyche can demand attachment, companionship and understanding in a mutual relationship.

It’s a choice and not a compulsion …its better to be single than to make a misfit or choice. Let me put it my way….I still did not manage to get a better fit ;I mean better half

There are many indian women who prefer to go single than to be in a repressive and monotonous relationship; those who want to discover themselves with a suitable companion.They are happy with their single status…they are economically self sufficient and enjoy their lives. But the society still has to come to terms with this liberated single and free woman……..dats a long way in this country